Anders at....he'll be 2 in January

Anders is coming up on 21 months now, though I never really know what to say when people ask me how old he is. I feel like he's getting a little old for the months answer and besides, it doesn't really capture the essence of Anders. What I'd like to say is "he's 21 months old, but as tall as a 15 month old, as heavy as a 3 year old, and with the emotional maturity of a 16 year old girl". Instead I usually settle for "he'll be 2 in January". TWO! Can't believe it's coming up on us so quickly. Thankfully he has been preparing us for this season of life for the past 9 months so there's no way we're going to be blind sided by the terrible twos. #blessed

Despite the tantrums and defiance this has to be my favorite age so far. He's developing such a personality and we love hearing him talk in his adorable, mixed up sentences. He's starting to be a little social butterfly. He has always loved kids. As soon as he catches sight of kids when we're out in public he zones in on them, starts laughing at their jokes, and thinks he can hang with them no matter their age. But lately he has started striking up conversations with adults too. We were at the zoo the other day and he had a stream of dialogue going with this random woman at the otter exhibit. As the otter would swim back and forth he would say, "where''d he go? otter go? oh! there he is! find him!" for like seriously 15 minutes. It wasn't getting old to me or him, but I can't speak for this poor woman.

More Andersisms of 21 months that I don't want to forget

• "Come on Mama/Daddy/Oliver! Pay yegos!" (while beckoning us with his hand)
• "Here go, Mama" (when handing me something I almost never want)
• "Hurt your finger" -what he says anytime he hurts anything
• "Bonk your head"- any time he gets in trouble he says he bonked his head to get sympathy
• Gives himself pep talks- "Good dump it out!" "Good helping Anders!" "Careful Anders" (when doing something dangerous like jumping on the bed)
• When we tell him it's time to say prayers he folds his arms and says "Heavenly Father, thank you day" Maybe his mother and father need to work on their vain repetitions...
• Thinks everything is funny. "funny dog" "funny yogurt" "funny trash truck". It's really not all that funny
• Counting. I can't do it justice so I'll have to post it a video. Adam thinks he has disparnumerophobia. #notarealdisease

Other than that he's pretty much your typical toddler. He loves animals and is getting really brave around dogs, even letting them lick his face and smack him with their tails. He loves construction and we check in on the two construction sites on our street every day. He's getting interested in dinosaurs and calls them all "big T-Rex" no matter how many times I correct him. And I know my dinosaurs. He gets so frustrated when things don't go his way and throws himself down on the ground in true toddler fashion. He's a great eater one day and the next won't touch anything we give him. He loves Oliver and they freak out every morning they see each other (which is like 5 mornings a week) but then I hear "Anders' turn" all day in reference to anything that Oliver has, so we're still working on sharing. Loves books and has lots of words and phrases memorized. Always wants to be as naked as we'll let him be (as evidenced by the below pictures). He'll ask for "shirt off, pants off, socks off" then try for "diaper off" but we stop him there. He's interested in babies and holding his baby doll but can't understand why he can't find the baby in Mama's tummy. I mean, I could go on forever but I'll probably just leave you with an onslaught of pictures. 

 

washing machine maintenance

always happy to pet your dog at the park

"here go, mama"

mid-week breakfast date with the big D

crazy times at the park with his two best buds Oliver and Audrey 

(also, all toddler girls are named Audrey)

always requesting "buddles" in the bath

sitting on this fake hippo is always, always better than seeing the live hippos

you can never be too safe while puzzling

 Adam requested a picture of Anders while at work and I sent him the first one I took. 

Beggars can't be choosers!

And in closing, here's the video I promised. Not sure how to make it not look so funky and huge? For those who don't speak Anders he's trying to count but keeps getting distracted by fire trucks and trash trucks. He finally settles on "1, 2, 5, 6, 8, 10, 12, 14! 16, 16, 16, 16!"

He's my best little buddy and I love him to pieces.

Another baby

A couple of weeks after we got to Pocatello Adam and I found out that we were expecting a second baby. Approximately 30 seconds later my pants started feeling a little tight and my belly pretty much took off from there. This pregnancy was almost impossible to hide from all the friends and family we saw while out east but I tried my best to be discreet about who I spilled the beans to as I was still in my first trimester. I definitely got plenty of hard stares at my mid-section from those I didn't tell, though.

Turning 9 weeks at Morgan's house and already bumpin.

And now, a little bit about pregnancy #2 in bullet form because that's how I do. 

• Very similar and very different from my first pregnancy. I still never threw up but I was pretty darn nauseous between weeks 5 and 8. I also had a lot less energy. Anders got plenty of screen time our last few weeks in Pocatello. I don't think he minded too much. Also, I have my old high school acne back which is such a joy! I mean, who doesn't want more youthful looking skin, right?!
• We were originally hoping for a leap baby but my body went a little wacky the couple months before we got pregnant and now the due date is February 15th. So now I'm crossing my fingers the baby will come a day early (and I know no one likes Valentine's Day but I love all holidays and I don't think it would be such a terrible thing to share your birthday with love and chocolate) or four days late (Uncle Brian's birthday).
• I kind of forgot how paranoid I get when I'm pregnant/have a newborn (ask me about the time I cried myself to sleep when Anders was a week old after googling "cystic fibrosis symptoms") but luckily I have Adam to remind me. When I asked him if I was this bad the first time around he said, "no way! you were so much worse!" which I find strangely comforting. 
• As for the sex of the baby, this one's a stumper! I guess gun to my head I would have to guess girl, but I'm not nearly as confident as I was with Anders. I told Adam the other day that when he announced that Anders was a boy my first thought was "duh" and my second thought was, "oh wait! we didn't officially know that!" This time around I think I'll be surprised and excited either way. Adam says his guess is boy but that's probably only because he thinks I want a girl and doesn't want me to be disappointed if it's not. Which I won't be, by the way. I mean, have you seen my son?
• Speaking of which, Anders has no idea what's coming. He's a pretty sensitive and needy kid sometimes (all the time) so I'm a little worried about how the transition is going to go. I tell myself that it will all be for the best in the long run. Like, he'll thank me when he's not his parent's sole caretaker in 60 years.

Our ultrasound place only gives you pictures on a DVD now. Lame! I prefer the printed ones. But here's the babe at 12 weeks. I'm too scared to look at the 20 week ultrasound disc because Anders' had a very clear between-the-legs picture (they warned us, luckily). What do you think? Is that a boy or girl profile?

Anyway I don't have much more to say on this subject. TBH, we haven't really thought or talked about this second baby half as much as we did with the first. Sorry baby! We promise to smother you with love you when you get here!

In my mind I'm going to (South) Carolina

After five weeks in Idaho Anders and I were ready for a change of scene so we headed east to get some family/friend time. We first spent a week with my family in Virginia, then went to Georgia for a couple of days to visit my college bestie Morgan, then off to South Carolina to visit my Seattle besties Ande and Courtney, then to Delaware to spend a week with our best dad and my extended family at the beach. I know I've been a better blogger this year but I'm still, I'm still Jenny from the Block so obviously I only have pictures from our week with friends. But here we go anyway!

 

Anders hated all the extra attention as you can clearly see.

 

Morgan's Instagram caption for this picture was perfect so I don't feel like I need to reinvent the wheel: "When one of your best friends from college comes from the other side of the country to visit, you pause to take a picture even though Anders is headed straight for the pool unattended".   

 

Augusta! Home of the Masters! Also the Hansens! Aaaaaand that's about it. This was such a quick visit (less than 48 hours) but just enough time for Anders to be sufficiently doted on by his two big kid buddies and for Morgan and me to catch up on all the haps in the 4 years since we'd seen each other last. Like the 3.5 babies we've produced, etc. Morgan is one of a few reasons why I have a very strong testimony of random roommates in college. Amen.

Off to Hilton Head! Still smiling because we didn't know about 

all the calamities about to befall us. #stomachbug #beesting  

 

 

Soaking up a crazy South Carolina thunderstorm. East coast rain storms have my heart.

   3 toddlers and 2 vehicles, so...

Some early morning dock time. I don't think I would mind his early wake ups so much 

if we could head to the dock every day.

Courtney Photoshopped a bunch of the pictures to make me look ghostly pale. 

Don't think I didn't notice, Courtney! (broken heart emoji)

Brunette babies need not apply

After Augusta we headed to Okatie, SC to meet up with Courtney and Ande + babies. Being with these friends again was so good for the soul. Not so great on the stomach, though. William "the vector" McNaught ended up bringing the house down with some kind of virus, but not even 35 pukes in 2 days could stop us from enjoying ourselves. I'm still mad these girls left Seattle. Come back anytime (in the next 9 months) ladies!

Basically, my biggest take aways from this post are that I'm incredibly blessed in the friends department but also suuuuper pale. BRB going tanning.